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So You Want To Talk To Your Lover About Your Sexual Fantasies...

Writer's picture: Choiwee MoonChoiwee Moon

Wohoo!!


You're ready to share your wildest and most exciting fantasies with your beloved.


Here's some things to consider so that you have the most successful and sexy outcome to the convo...



-The timing of the chat. Don't spring it on them when they're about to walk out the door to work. Ensure it's a time when you've both got space to be open and present.



-Talk about what you already LOVE about your sex life already and let them know that these desires are not coming from a feeling of lack, rather a place of curiousity.



-Check in with yourself first. Are these fantasies that you're sharing with a desire to bring to life or simply to explore the idea of and share with your partner so more of you can be witnessed. Knowing your ultimate desire will help you to share more clearly.



-Let them know you're open to any and all questions either at the time or at a later date.



-Be unattached to the outcome. If you're going in with an incentive or attempt to try and convince them into anything or to be completely understood the very first time entering into fantasy terrain you may come away disappointed or feeling rejected.



-Participate in creating a shame-free space for this conversation to come alive. Try not to shame yourself or them as you learn more about one another through it.



AAAANND have some fun!


Bring in some energy of play and joy.


You never know what may come from it!


Remember. The more openly you share, the more authentically you're committing to your relationship which is something to celebrate in itself.

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